Tristan Taormino's Rough Sex

I hope babeland never gets rid of this movie!!!
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Submitted 2009-11-11
By Anon from cali

disclaimer:I do have a bdsm sex life. I loved this movie It was inspired, honest and hot as hell. It is so nice to know that porn stars are total freaky perverts. I think the last scene was amazing the chemistry between sasha and danny is steamy. and the fact that you can hear all the dirty kinky things they say to each other makes it feel extra real. maybe for the next one tristan should have a female squirter. everyone should watch this movie.

Rough can get you wet!
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Submitted 2009-10-16
By Aurora24 from USA

Tristan Taormino’s “Rough Sex” is an interesting DVD. There are 5 separate scenes as well as some safety advice on the topic of choking/breath play, which is an activity that is in several of the scenes featured on this disc. There’s also a section on safer sex practices, along with a blooper reel and previews for other Taormino projects. But these are just the extras. The meat of the DVD are 5 distinct scenes that are unique in my, admittedly, limited experience with porn. The scenes are designed by the women starring in them. They got to choose the parameters of the scene, their partners, everything. Taormino gave the women complete control over what was going to happen on film. I found the idea of the women having this level of control intriguing. Adrianna’s scene was a post-shower intruder rape scene. She chose Marco to be her partner. Her only limit was pussy slapping. We didn’t get to see the actual negotiation between Adrianna and Marco, but the intro section did cover a lot of the ground in what I’ve been taught is important for negotiating a scene. My favorite part of the scene was him using her hair as a leash while she’s giving him a blowjob. And Adrianna has an actual belly! Which, being a woman with a belly, is something I heartily approve! Satine’s fantasy was to be accosted in a secluded area by a handsome and dominant stranger. Boy, did she ever get that. This was one of my favorite scenes on the disc. The choking was very, very hot. Derrick’s hand went all the way around her throat. I had a hard time hearing what was said and it made the scene less enjoyable for me. Marie’s fantasy was to be caught cheating and forced into sex by her partner. The idea of rape play is one that I find intriguing, and this scene plays it out very well. I’d like to find a guy who could hold me up while fucking. That looked like fun… Sasha’s scene was a lot of fun. We actually got to watch her negotiate with Danny for what was acceptable. They switch control of the scene at least twice and it just added to the intensity of the whole thing. This scene was probably my favorite. Sasha and Danny have such awesome chemistry and work so well together.

Being in charge doesn't mean being on top...
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Submitted 2009-10-16
By Aurora24 from USA

I was intrigued by the concept of this DVD: take 5 women who enjoy the rougher side of sex and ask them what their fantasies are, then try to make them come true. That's just what Tristan Taormino did here. She gave the women control over their partner, the setting and what was going to happen in it. I got some great ideas for things that turn me on and found some things that turned me off. My biggest problems with the DVD were the lack of safer sex practices and the poor sound editing that made it hard to hear much of what was being said in all the scenes. Go, explore, learn!

I love Rough Sex!
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Submitted 2009-10-13
By Sarah Sloane from Washington, DC

I got my copy in the mail a few weeks ago – since then, I’ve watched it with friends & lovers, and everyone that’s seen it has been thrilled. On a smallish bed with three other queer folk at a recent event, everyone had comments ranging from “wow, that’s the hottest male/female sex I’ve ever seen!”, to “if I wasn’t so tired, I’d need to go get off right now”. My neighbor asked if he could borrow it once I was through with it – and came over to my house & literally took it out of my DVD player before I left town so that he could take it home & enjoy it. And these aren’t porn neophytes – these are people who have seen it all and done it all (or at least, thought of doing it all), and still found it in their jaded little hearts to be enthusiastically turned on after watching just a little bit of the DVD. I have to say that my favorite scene, hands down, is the scene with Satine and Derrick. Their chemistry sizzles off the charts; Satine loves every single second with Derrick, and her body shows it. Derrick is now in my list of adult industry guys who can actually use their words as powerfully as their cocks – as a dirty talk aficionado, I got almost as turned on by his words as by his actions. Satine succumbs to Derrick’s pressure to fuck while sitting with her broken-down car in the desert, and ends up laying in the dirt with his cum on her…oh, yum. Tristan does an amazing job of dispelling the concept that rough sex is solely about male degradation of women or that it’s something that women do because they just want to please their man (or that it’s expected). Her one-on-one interviews with the female stars that run just prior to each scene give the viewers a chance to hear why each one of the stars likes rough sex; what they like about it, what turns them on, and most importantly, how it empowers them. Hearing these women, strong and confident in their explanations about why they love it harder & rougher…then seeing them in the act…is sure to leave many viewers looking at how to bring a little more power play to their sex lives, and gives some scenarios to inspire that play.